eBook - How to Recognise and Heal Co-dependency
by Melanie Tonia Evans

Co-dependency unfortunately is an aspect of the ‘normal’ human condition that destroys our self-esteem.

Self esteem is VITAL! If we don’t have it we don’t feel GOOD, SAFE or HAPPY in the world!

What is Co-dependency?

Co-dependency was initially prescribed as a condition created by living with an alcoholic or a substance-abusing parent. But I believe it is so much more...

I used to think that because I was independent, strong, resourceful and able to provide financially for myself that I wasn’t co-dependent. When I discovered THE TRUTH about how co-dependent I was, my life completely turned around for the better. In fact this discovery and focus on my recovery from co-dependency was one of the most LIBERATING and EMPOWERING parts of my personal journey.

Why? Because no longer did I get ‘beaten up’ by life and others, TRYING to make them responsible for my own sense of self.

I know that when you read this vital information you’ll also realise WHY you can feel broken, empty, let down and alone. And most importantly you’ll know how to turn it all around!

The incredible irony is: once we know HOW to be our own source of self we start to effortlessly attract situations and people into our life that are also ‘whole’; people and things that also have the resources to add to our established sense of self.

That makes it SO WORTHWHILE to discover the facts, and absorb the education necessary to release co-dependent tendencies!

When you do this, no longer will you be ‘delivered’ all the people and things that show up for you reflecting back at you just how empty and reliant you are on them. (I so know how painful that used to feel!)

The truth of the matter is: POINT BLANK -
If we have an attachment to things outside of ourselves (especially other individuals) in order to have a ‘safe’ and ‘happy’ sense of self then we are co-dependent.

 

Only you can make yourself whole and happy

None of our safety and happiness is authentic unless it comes from self! NONE OF IT! In fact if it’s reliant on ‘stuff’ outside of us, then we are only safe, fulfilled and happy if and when it’s being supplied FOR us.

Make sense?

Law of Attraction is very specific. It goes like this – ‘As within, so without’. So what happens when we’re not a source of our own ‘wholeness’? It means we’re NOT whole – which can only mean that we will create and endure things and people that only add to our sense of  ‘not being whole’.

Quite frankly this NEVER works and the disappointments HURT!

Have a think about this......

If you’re not whole, and try to make life and others supply you this wholeness...

• You discover you have absolutely no control over other people and situations, and actually end up being controlled by them.
• You know that your emotional state is dependent on what life and others are or aren’t doing, which means your emotions are always precarious.
• No matter how hard you try to secure real, durable and supportive love you continually feel at the very least unsupported, and possibly even abandoned, rejected and unlovable.

Ready to turn it around?

Please, please, please I urge you take the journey I did, and delve into the components of co-dependency and how it relates to you. Learn how to empower yourself so that YOU will fill up with self-esteem, and start creating and attracting a life that grants you love, success and fulfilment.

Isn’t that what we all want? In fact it’s what we all need to do.

Within this eBook you’ll meet the part of you that has felt insecure and unworthy and finally you’ll have the awareness and the knowledge to support this part that you always thought someone else had to fix. Well now it’s time to realise. No-one else can! But YOU can!

How this eBook will benefit you

This eBook will explain to you:

• What co-dependency is
• Why the human condition is co-dependent
• Why it’s so necessary to embrace and admit our co-dependent tendencies
• The checklist to ascertain your level of co-dependency
• How our childhoods contributed to our co-dependency
• The effects of co-dependency
• The physical and emotional symptoms of co-dependency
• The addictive component of co-dependency
• How co-dependency is synonymous with poor boundary function
• Examples of co-dependency
• Why co-dependency equals obsession and pain
• The truth of what’s really going on beneath co-dependency
• The ‘goals’ necessary to heal co-dependency

All this time you’ve been screaming out to be supported by the most genuine source of all... YOURSELF. Not only is conquering co-dependency the ONLY solution, it’s a total relief!

It feels so good...

Welcome to your liberation! Now get going and PLEASE read my eBook and start creating your journey as your AUTHENTIC SELF!

Order your eBook for only $14.95AUD