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How to Understand and Implement Healthy Boundary Function eBook
by Melanie Tonia Evans

It’s astounding that we all know the ‘rules’ in regard to protecting our homes, cars and bank accounts, yet we were never educated in how to define what is or isn’t our emotional health and personal boundaries. Boundaries truly are everything! This eBook will help you understand why.

This eBook provides you the answers to:


What personal boundaries are, and why they are so VITAL.

Recognising where your boundary function may be deficient, and why you have suffered anxiety, depression and ‘less-than’ results in these areas of life.

The steps to set boundaries clearly and calmly, and how to receive the ‘treatment’ from life that you have always desired.


I, like so many people used to have really poor boundaries! I used to think that being a nice person was all that was required in order to have nice things happen to me. Well, of course I was in for a huge shock! I learnt the hard way that my fear of aggressive, intimidating and violating people, who I knew I struggled to stand up to, attracted a lot of the pain and violation I was receiving. I had no idea how to protect the little Melanie who was scared and insecure. I thought it was someone else’s job to look after her, and ironically what occurred is I chose people in my life that I hoped would be my rock and they ended up being my hammer. Because I wasn’t stepping up to love, respect and honour myself – key people in my life weren’t either. When I discovered what boundaries were, how easy they were to implement, and used them to change my life – I experienced changes that made life so unscary I wondered why on earth I had never known about or used boundaries before! In fact I was bewildered that we AREN”T taught boundaries at a very early age as a part of life curriculum. Now, because of having my boundaries sorted, I expand in life, be myself fearlessly and know that I have the perfect tools in order to be safe on my journey of life – no matter what shows up. This equals for me – confidence, self-esteem, freedom, unlimited growth and a fearless existence, which is a total liberation from my previous inhibited, restricted and fearful self.

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What Others Say about this eBook

"I knew I had to start speaking up in my life, if I wanted to stop feeling drained and violated. For my whole life I felt that if I didn’t go along with what everyone else wanted,  I would either be punished or abandoned. I can’t believe how laying boundaries creates the totally opposite effect. I wrote down the steps of how to lay boundaries, and formulated in a notebook what I would do when the same issues occurred with my husband, kids and mother. I then did your steps in real life, and I can’t thank you enough for granting this knowledge. It has given me back my life! I have gone from being trampled on, to being respected. overnight, and I can’t believe how easy it is!"

~ Paula C. Tasmania


"Thank you for this publication. It has finally provided me with the answers as to why I felt so guilty and couldn’t stop giving, even though no-one around me appreciated me or my efforts. I lost so much of my resources and myself because I had absolutely no boundaries. Now I know exactly what to do, and why to do it. It is still frightening, but I now know that self-sacrificing myself so as not to anger anyone else is totally self-defeating and is not helping me or them – and for everyone’s sake it has to stop. I have made small changes, and have already seen people around me starting to take more responsibility for themselves, as well as being more available to support me. I now want to focus on healing the fears that are stopping me going all the way with implementing boundaries. Thank you for explaining the journey that I know I need to be on."

~ Maria S Philippines


"Yes! Yes! Yes! I found myself nodding my head all the way through this eBook! How simple is it to realise what boundaries are and how to do them!? In fact it is so obvious and right that I don’t understand why we don’t all know this. It wasn’t until reading this eBook that I realised I didn’t have a clue about boundaries, and how I and other people in my life have been paying the price for that. Since changing my thoughts and actions in certain situations, not only have I improved conditions for myself I have seen other people step up and feel much better too. I now realise how much boundaries are win / win. This information has changed my life, and the weird thing is, is that as soon as I read the information and started applying it boundaries felt incredibly natural, as if I’d always been doing them. I can see now how life without boundaries, and a life with boundaries are as opposite as chalk and cheese!"

~ Anna P. AUST

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