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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Central: Support
The support intentions of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Central, and how N.A.R.C. can benefit you

Hi, I’m Melanie Tonia Evans, and my passion is showing people that we’re NOT doomed to an emotionally crippled existence as a result of narcissistic abuse. In no way do I wish to invalidate what happened to you – which is horrific – but instead teach and instil in you how your breakdown can, and will, become your breakthrough experience. Contemporary therapy suggests that narcissistically abused victims can take years to recover if they ever do – and certainly this probability is the traditional mode.

I promise you, this is not the reality that you’re doomed to live.

There’s a deeper truth that occurs when we’ve experienced narcissistic abuse, and that is: this experience happened for a reason, and there is the ability to create and embrace awareness and healing in a way which empowers and creates us as the individuals we truly wish to be. From this space, we claim self-love, self-esteem and deservedness, and attract and maintain a life and love that represents exactly that.

This doesn’t mean we simply become tougher, more wary and refuse to let ourselves be hurt like this again. Rather, it means we take responsibility for WHY this happened to us, WHY we allowed it, and what our healing, empowerment and personal growth can become as a result.

By taking this journey, not only do we become empowered people in life who aren’t susceptible to narcissistic abuse again, it creates us as individuals who are confident, free and expansive in every part of our life. That is what we were always meant to be.

As a result of my narcissistic life-or-death relationship, I had a complete breakdown of myself and nearly everything in my life. From this total rock-bottom, I was fortunate enough to ‘sense’ and ‘see’ a way, and to be able to take responsibility for what was really going on. From that point of self-ownership I was able to get my focus off the narcissist – wanting him to be accountable, to apologise, to pay, to fix the damage he had done, to ‘magically’ become the loving and real partner I wanted him to be – and I was able to free myself of the manic pulls, the addiction to him and the spiral into complete self-disintegration that I’d become.

For the first time in my life, I was able to put my focus fully into myself, and from that incredible ‘shift’ in perspective, I was able to heal me, create me, and know a ‘self’ that I’d never previously known – even way before the narcissist entered my life.

This ‘self’ became safe and inspired. She learnt how to create personal boundaries, love herself, value herself and walk those self-created ‘truths’ with integrity regardless of what other people were or weren’t doing. For the first time ever I knew personal freedom.

I discovered that no-one was responsible for my well-being – I was! And when I become responsible for my own well-being, and trusted myself in knowing how to enforce that, it became a simple task to participate with ‘what was me’ and leave alone ‘what wasn’t me’. It became easy to allow others to be who they needed to be, and SIMPLY decide who I was in relation to that, and who or what was or wasn’t my truth.

The new ‘me’ knew that narcissism was no longer my reality – and there was no necessity to participate and play that ‘game’ anymore.

I also knew that if I judged others and held them accountable for me, that really what I was creating for myself was: I can’t be happy until you change or become a certain way to make me happy, which is the illusion I played out horrifically in my narcissistic relationship. The truth was: I was expecting a man who didn’t have healthy intentions or resources to supply me with ‘myself’!

It wasn’t his job – It was ALWAYS mine...

My life now is astounding. I have the most incredible love partner, and he is totally loving, supportive and REAL. He came into my life because I learnt how to be totally loving, supportive and REAL for myself.

This description of me above, has now become a reality for many people world-wide. Everyone without exception that connects with me and commits to the processes to recover and heal, has the same experience – a journey of freedom and empowerment, and aligning with the life they really want to live. The success rate is irrefutable and profound. I’m regularly contacted by patients who’ve been referred by psychologists. Many psychologists are totally astounded at how their patients heal so conclusively when committing to my resources. My two main narcissistic articles are becoming resources for many psychologists to hand out to narcissistically abused patients. All of this has happened organically. I never contacted psychologists myself – the word just got around.

The Journey from Pain to Recovery to Love is extensive after being narcissistically abused, because you’ve been completely stripped of yourself. You feel powerless and shattered, like an empty, anxious shell losing your mind; intensely obsessed with thoughts and feelings about the twists, turns, betrayals, malicious behaviour and insanity of it all. You feel dead and at the same time terrorised on the inside, and if you’re severely narcissistically abused you sell your soul and hand over more and more pieces of yourself regardless of how much, or how often, the narcissist is battering you. It’s like being raped on every level, whilst continually signing up for more. And whilst your soul is being raped, you stay attached trying to right the wrongs.

No-one could even begin to understand what it is to be narcissistically abused, because ‘normal’ relationship problems and breakups don’t even come close.

This community is about knowing how soul-destroyed you are, and granting you extremely revolutionary information and healing which has proven to create powerful and real results for narcissistically abuse victims world-wide.

I know from personal and client experience how ‘costly’ narcissistic relationships are on every level – emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially. To remain hooked to a narcissist means that you throw more or your resources in, and spiral into more loss. The ‘losing’ doesn’t end until the spiral into despair ceases..

My solutions eliminate the need for you to remain in the fray and lose more of yourself and your life.

Please understand if you aren’t severely narcissistically abused, or if you’ve been able to do an empowerment journey yourself – my radio shows, free information, newsletter support and empowerment, and eBook resources (as an option) may be enough. However, if you can’t get the pain out of your body, stop the obsessive thoughts and feelings, escape from the manic addiction and going back in with the narcissist to experience more pain, or get to the point of No Contact (NC) with a narcissist who is damaging you, then you need specific empowerment solutions.

If the above symptoms of narcissistic abuse relate to you, I urge you to place a value on yourself. If you car was running badly, you’d have it repaired. If your roof was leaking, you’d take action. The truth is, if you’re crumbling, you need to sort this out, and therefore if you want to heal you have to be prepared to invest in yourself.

This I do know, in order to recover from severe narcissistic abuse, you do need to commit to healing. This is a time to make yourself a high priority and realise that if you don’t have YOU – then you have nothing. This is one of the greatest gifts I received from narcissistic abuse (amongst many), which was for the first time I discovered what it was to make myself a priority, and that I deserved my own attention, and to grant myself healing. I was completely wiped out financially in the devastation of my narcissistic relationship breakdown, yet I made healings and therapy a priority. I knew I had to. Previously I’d always been way too sensible to spend what I thought was ‘pointless’ money on myself. The REAL truth was: I’d never learnt how to give to myself, and didn’t think I was worth it. In regard to necessary healing, my absolute suggestion is: the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program, or Quanta Freedom Healings.

In order to gain your trust and belief in how I can help you, my Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program and Quanta Freedom Healings carry a full-money back guarantee. Additionally, the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program contains a powerful array of informational and healing products at a substantially discounted price. I have done this purposefully in order to offer global accessibility to women and men in need.

My resources are inexpensive, and far more cost-effective than conventional therapy. The eBooks are just under $15.00 AU each, (less as a package), and the cost of my Base Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program is less than the cost of 2 psychology / counselling sessions, and the Deluxe Program less than 4 psychology / counselling sessions. This extensive Program provides you with the information you require, as well as ongoing healings that are continually able to be utilised. The results (if the Program is adhered to) are fast and powerful. In fact, immediately upon partaking in this Program you’ll feel more solid, stronger within yourself and start to experience relief from the addiction and the pain. If the results are not forthcoming within 2 weeks, then the Program is fully refundable.

Please know, if deciding to do one-on-one Quanta Freedom Healing Sessions with me (refundable if instant relief isn’t experienced), in no way do I wish to create an on-going co-dependency with you, and keep you in ongoing therapy. I want you to become empowered and become the source to yourself that doesn’t need me. Having said this, I am available personally for the time that you do need me, and I’m also available by email for support and information as a free service.
I’d love you to connect to this community! By doing so you’ll be able to access many free resources, and you will also have the opportunity to share and connect via the newsletters and the radio programs. Your questions will be many people’s questions, and therefore by sourcing your own answers you will be contributing to other people’s answers. I’ll promote Programs and resources periodically in the newsletter, and on my radio program, as well as encouraging those who’ve accessed these experiences to report their healing results. Please know it will always be your choice, as to whether or not you partake in healing at this level.

I know my information and methods create a difference – and if I can help heal the narcissistic abuse epidemic on this planet I’ve truly fulfilled my mission. Every time I see a fellow human being ‘shift’ from victim to ‘empowerment’, humbly I thank Life profusely for my journey and what it created. My vision for the N.A.R.C. community is to create a safe place where individuals can grow, heal and inspire each other to create a REAL life of love, integrity and truth together.

Please research the components of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Central, and I look forward to holding your hand and leading you into the feeling and knowing of what I and many others now do, which is: life on the other side after narcissistic abuse.

Much love

Melanie Tonia Evans