Melanie Tonia Evans

Narcissistic Personality Disorder Quiz 101

Narcissistic Personality Disorder, also known as narcissism, is a societal problem in epidemic proportions, which seriously compromises the sustaining of healthy and safe love relationships.

This quiz and the questions have been developed as a result of many years of research, in regard to my own personal experience and the experiences of thousands of clients.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder Quiz 101

Please note I am neither a qualified psychologist nor a qualified counsellor and I offer my insights and advice for guidance only. If the results of this quiz cause concern, you may wish to seek further advice.

You can take the following quiz of 101 questions to discover your own degree of narcissism, and to understand what level of narcissism you may be experiencing, or have experienced from a suspected narcissistic person in your life.

Everyone to some extent is 'narcissistic'. Healthy narcissism means that you have the ability to get your needs met without damaging other people whilst doing so. Unhealthy narcissism is at play when individuals operate to an 'I win / you lose' model, which purposefully mines and diminishes other people.

When doing the quiz to ascertain your own levels of narcissism, if you don't have a present intimate relationship in your life, answer the questions based on the previous person. When doing the quiz for a suspected narcissistic person, answer the questions on their behalf to the best of your ability.

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder Quiz

HIGHER POWER AND GLOBAL

Do you dismiss a ‘higher power’ and feel that you alone are your power?

Yes

Sometimes

HIGHER POWER AND GLOBAL

1) Do you enjoy getting ‘stuff’ yet, feel like you need to get more to be happy.

yes

Sometimes

HIGHER POWER AND GLOBAL

Do you have difficulty in feeling compassion for other individuals and the world in general if the event in question doesn’t involve you?

Yes

Sometimes

HIGHER POWER AND GLOBAL

Do you feel like it’s you against the world?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you enjoy being the centre of attention?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

When in a group and other people are gaining attention do you feel uncomfortable, annoyed or depressed?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel angry or disturbed when your someone close to you is receiving positive attention from other people?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you enjoy showing people how good you are at a particular task, and feel motivated by their praise mostly as the reason to assist them?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel resentful when other people receive praise and you don’t?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel resentful when a significant other receives praise from other people?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Have you ever tried to discredit someone who is getting praise, or left the scene when others are praised because it upsets you?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you find it much easier to give of yourself to people outside of your nearest relationships?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel angry and upset when seeing other people achieve and accomplish success and good things?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel angry and upset when viewing other people’s happiness?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel angry and upset when something else makes your significant other happy?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel angry or upset when a significant other talks about other people in a complimentary way?

Yes

Sometimes

ATTENTION

Do you feel repulsion or disdain towards doing things to make a significant other happy?

Yes

Sometimes

REVENGE AND VENGEANCE

When you believe someone close to you does something bad to you, do you feel that you want to get back at them?

Yes

Sometimes

REVENGE AND VENGEANCE

Have you ever felt that you wanted to destroy an associate’s life?

Yes

Sometimes

REVENGE AND VENGEANCE

Have you ever felt that you have wanted to destroy a significant other’s life?

Yes

Sometimes

REVENGE AND VENGEANCE

Have you ever sabotaged, hidden or damaged the property of people in order to disable his or her operations.

Yes

Sometimes

HEALTH

Have you ever pretended to be sick or have an illness to gain attention?

Yes

Sometimes

HEALTH

Do you feel resentful when someone close to you is sick or has an illness?

Yes

Sometimes

PROJECTION

When feeling sad or mad do you find some relief by making someone else sad or mad?

Yes

Sometimes

PROJECTION

When feeling angry or insecure do you take it out on those close to you?

Yes

Sometimes

PROJECTION

When feeling angry or upset do you place the blame on those close to you?

Yes

Sometimes

INVALIDATION

Do you disagree with others, preferring to make out that it was “your idea”?

Yes

Sometimes

INVALIDATION

Are you frustrated with someone else when they have an issue, and don't want to listen to their problems?

Yes

Sometimes

INVALIDATION

Do you tell people that their feelings and thoughts are “wrong” especially when it is about them being upset with you?

Yes

Sometimes

INVALIDATION

Do you struggle to comply to close people’s wishes when he or she asks you to do something?

Yes

Sometimes

MOODS

Do you often feel moody when not receiving attention, or when you spend time alone?

Yes

Sometimes

MOODS

When moody are you so absorbed in the mood that you don’t care how it affects other people?

Yes

Sometimes

MOODS

Do you enjoy that your moods can affect other people and bring their mood down?

Yes

Sometimes

MOODS

Do you have rapid mood swings, feeling high, energetic and animated and then suddenly crashing into depression?

Yes

Sometimes

FALSE PROMISES

Do you make promises that you don’t uphold to associates?

Yes

Sometimes

FALSE PROMISES

Do you make promises that you don’t uphold to those close to you?

Yes

Sometimes

FALSE PROMISES

Do you tell someone close that you were going to do something that they wanted, and now you won’t because of their actions?

Yes

Sometimes

RECOGNITION

Have you exaggerated or lied about your achievements and qualifications in order to gain recognition or trust from others?

Yes

Sometimes

RECOGNITION

Have you lied about your achievements and qualifications to potential love interests?

Yes

Sometimes

RECOGNITION

Does it anger or upset you when other people don’t recognise your skills and abilities?

Yes

Sometimes

RECOGNITION

Does it anger you when someone close doesn’t praise you?

Yes

Sometimes

RECOGNITION

Do you like to be known as the authority on matters that you talk about and struggle to take direction and mentoring from others?

Yes

Sometimes

CONTROL

When you don’t get what you want, do you feel angry and resentful towards people who don’t do what you want?

Yes

Sometimes

CONTROL

When someone close to you doesn’t comply with your wishes do you express anger or resentment towards him or her?

Yes

Sometimes

CRITICISM

Do you struggle to accept criticism from associates?

Yes

Sometimes

CRITICISM

Do you struggle to accept criticism from significant others?

Yes

Sometimes

CRITICISM

If you’re confronted by associates about a problem they have with you, do you become defensive, evasive or annoyed?

Yes

Sometimes

CRITICISM

When a significant other confronts you with a problem about you, do you become defensive, evasive or annoyed?

Yes

Sometimes

LYING

Do you lie to associates about you and your life to hide what you have done, or get your own way?

Yes

Sometimes

LYING

Do you lie to significant others to hide what you’ve done or get your own way?

Yes

Sometimes

HUMAN DISDAIN

Do you think that people who are honest good people, will never get ahead in life?

Yes

Sometimes

HUMAN DISDAIN

Do you think that people who are loving, compassionate and caring are vulnerable and weak?

Yes

Sometimes

HUMAN DISDAIN

Do you feel repulsion, disdain or disinterest towards a significant other when he or she offers you love and compassion?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF EMPATHY

Do you purposely say words and do actions that associates get upset or angered about?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF EMPATHY

Do you purposely say words and do actions without considering your significant other’s feelings that cause him or her emotional pain or distress?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF EMPATHY

Do you struggle to care about associates’ feelings when you upset or anger them?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF EMPATHY

Do you struggle to care about a significant other’s feelings when you upset or anger him or her?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF EMPATHY

When people are hurt or distressed, and it’s nothing to do with you, do you tend not to care and don’t feel motivated to offer them assistance?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF EMPATHY

When your significant other is hurt or distressed, and it’s nothing to do with you, do you feel disinterested, agitated, angry or resentful that he or she wants your assistance and support?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY

When you’re wrong, do you find it difficult to be accountable and admit your mistakes?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY

When you’re wrong and make mistakes do you try to push the blame onto other people?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY

Do you use allies in conversations to back up your arguments?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY

When confronted do you try to change the subject, and / or start blaming the other person for something they did rather than stick to the topic?

Yes

Sometimes

LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY

Do you struggle to apologise to a significant other when he or she is in pain as a result of your actions, and if you do, know that your apology is insincere?

Yes

Sometimes

SUSPICION

Do you distrust a significant other and suspect them of cheating on you, deceiving you or using you?

Yes

Sometimes

SUSPICION

Do you accuse a significant other of cheating on you, deceiving you or using you?

Yes

Sometimes

SUSPICION

Do you demonstrate jealousy and possessiveness towards a significant other?

Yes

Sometimes

SUSPICION

Do you have distrust for people in general, and feel that they have an agenda in their dealings with you?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

When trying to get your way do you try to make people feel confused, guilty or wrong?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

When trying to get your way do you try to make a significant other feel confused, guilty or wrong?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Do you use personal information you have gleaned from associates in order to upset, hurt or manipulate them?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Do you use personal information you have gleaned from a significant other in order to upset, hurt or manipulate him or her?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Have you ever threatened or blackmailed associates with information in order to get your own way?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Have you ever threatened or blackmailed a significant other with information in order to get your own way?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Do you gain people’s trust so that you can extract personal information from them?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Did you gain a significant other’s trust in order to extract personal information from him or her?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Have you ever told associates what they want to hear and feigned love, consideration, support or kindness in order to get them to do what you want them to do?

Yes

Sometimes

MANIPULATION

Have you ever pretended to be loving, caring or supportive, or made promises to a significant other in order to get your own way or maintain the relationship?

Yes

Sometimes

DECEPTION

Do you keep contact with love or sexual interests without your love partner’s knowledge?

Yes

Sometimes

DECEPTION

Have you ever procured or contacted other love or sexual interests when ignored or not getting what you want from your love partner?

Yes

Sometimes

DECEPTION

Do you feel happier when a significant other doesn’t know what you’re up to and where you are?

Yes

Sometimes

DECEPTION

Have you had affairs, sexual flirtations or encounters that you have hidden from your love partner?

Yes

Sometimes

DECEPTION

Have you ever stolen money, property, or articles from a significant other?

Yes

Sometimes

DECEPTION

Have you ever infiltrated your love partner’s personal property, private details or sensitive information, such as mail, bank accounts, diary, journal or insisted on putting tracking devices on him or her?

Yes

Sometimes

DISCREDITING

1) Have you ever discredited someone in order to damage their reputation?

Yes

Sometimes

DISCREDITING

Have you ever discredited a significant other in order to cause them to lose a job or associates, family or friends?

Yes

Sometimes

DISCREDITING

Have you ever discredited a significant other in order to gain attention and sympathy from other people?

Yes

Sometimes

DISCREDITING

Do you enjoy other people thinking that a significant other is mentally unstable, and the relationship problems are their fault?

Yes

Sometimes

INTIMIDATION

Do you ever use vengeance, threats and intimidation with associates to get your own way?

Yes

Sometimes

INTIMIDATION

Have you ever exhibited vengeance, threats and intimidation towards a significant other?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

Do you enjoy knowing that people are thinking about you, and may be upset in regard to the way you treated or treat them?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

Does it anger or upset you when past love partners move on and create a fulfilling life?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

Do you feel satisfaction when people feel pain, and struggle to move on in their life after being connected to you?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

Have you ever had a significant other who suicided, was institutionalised, or who was unable to function effectively as a result of their involvement with you, and this made you feel important?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

Do you enjoy people reacting badly and chasing after you when you ignore them, leave the scene or break off relationships with them?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

When a significant other is distressed and feeling powerless does this make you feel powerful and satisfied?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

If a love partner returns to the relationship after leaving you, do you punish your love partner, and resent what happened in their life without you?

Yes

Sometimes

MALICIOUSNESS

Have you flaunted affairs, sexual flirtations or encounters real or imagined to purposefully upset and anger your love partner.

Yes

Sometimes

POWER TRIPPING

Do you use personal low-blows or name-calling to hurt people?

Yes

Sometimes

POWER TRIPPING

Have you ever purposefully attacked someone, with their most vulnerable Issues?

Yes

Sometimes

POWER TRIPPING

Have you ever physically overpowered, raped, or physically injured someone less physically powerful that you?

Yes

Sometimes

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