About Melanie Tonia Evans
Hi I'm Melanie, and it's lovely to meet you!
I'm from Melbourne, Australia.
The last few years of my life have been an incredible transformation toward freedom, joy, health and wellbeing
Some of things that I adore as part of my commitment and connection to wonderful living are: exercising in nature daily, yoga, and eating nutritious meals.
The more and more I shift myself into well-being and wholeness with Quanta Freedom Healing, which is my main healing tool, the more I organically evolve to wanting to nourish myself more.
Here are some pictures of my love for nature and how blessed I am to live where its gifts are abundant.
My family and I are incredibly close.
My son Zac works full time with me as MTE's Copywriter and Production / Marketing Manager, and I adore our personal and working relationship.
One of the loveliest things about our relationship, and Zac's involvement with MTE, is that he is spiritual, very committed with his own personal development, and incredibly heartfelt about this mission to assist people recovering from narcissistic abuse.
I am incredibly proud of his heart, dedication and benevolence.
Amongst my most favourite things to do is sharing dinner and cards once a week with my incredibly loving and healthy parents who are in their 80's.
I also love dancing, great food and wine and cocktails, playing in life and catching up to laugh and play with friends.
I have the freedom to travel, and to connect to incredible experiences. I am so blessed that I can work from anywhere in the world. Literally anywhere can be my "office" for the day.
My life transformed incredibly because I did the work to release the trapped painful and fearful emotions and beliefs that had led me unconsciously into abusive relationships. By doing this, I was able to transcend from a literal lifetime of fearful contraction, lack of confidence, and fear of security to the evolution of my true authentic self. This meant I was no longer the Old Me... The New Me now shines a light of love, truth and transparency that is impervious to toxic people.
I can't tell you how incredibly powerful, joyful, loving and free this orientation and level of development is!
Before undergoing this healing path, I really had no idea I would emerge as a more whole person than I could have ever known was possible.
Before this journey I had no idea who my True Self was … and now I do.
As a result, I developed an incredible passion to share my personal journey and the healing awareness I have been so blessed to receive from my life.
I do this by writing and creating articles, Programs, Courses, Books and recording blog radio shows which I share with my New Life Community.
I adore my life.
All of my life.
But life wasn't always like this ...
I have been through two intimate relationships with narcissists.
The first was my husband of five years who almost brought me to suicide. He was physically, verbally and financially violent. He used every twist and turn fathomable, including threats and stalking, attempting to systematically destroy my life piece by piece.
My life was shattered, and my mental health led to a complete psychotic breakdown. I was suicidal and had no idea at the time how I would recover, let alone rebuild my life.
Despite all of the things he did to me, and after leaving him, it took years to overcome the addiction to him, and to stop trying to fix my relationship with him.
The second abuse experience was a more cunning altruistic narcissist. Luckily because I was much more aware, and already had the tools to recover, I was able to get out of the relationship and stay out with much less damage. I was also able to heal and recover so much faster – even better than before.
Some years ago when I was searching for answers about why the first narcissist did the things he did, I stumbled upon the word "narcissism". At that time I didn't even know what the word meant.
It didn't take me long to realise that people all over the world were suffering from the effects of narcissistic abuse.
After finding no relief or solutions through contemporary channels, and discovering Quantum Healing Tools that catapulted me in the awareness and ability to recover and rebuild my life, I decided to create this website and make it my personal mission to help as many people around the world recover from this horrific phenomenon as I could.
Since then I have written 2 books, over a dozen eBooks, written countless articles and recorded just as many radio shows, and I am the proud founder of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program which now has facilitated unprecedented Thriver recoveries for thousands of people from over 50 countries from all over the world.
If you have been through an abusive relationship with someone who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder, you will know that no one understands what you are going through unless they have personally experienced it.
It can be very frustrating when people in your life really can't relate to what you are going through. They might say things such as "Why don't you just leave him / her?" or "Why can't just move on and stop thinking about him / her?"
The truth is recovering from a narcissistic relationship is nothing like recovery from a non-narcissistic relationship breakup and breakdown.
I want you to know that you are certainly not alone. In fact there are thousands of people on this website who are going through, or have been through, the identical devastation and truly understand …
My philosophy is not simply about surviving narcissistic abuse; it is about becoming a Thriver as a result of being narcissistically abused. It is about being able to detach, focus on healing yourself, become empowered and remove yourself from the narcissist's ability to affect or abuse you.
My healing and self-development processes are not just about breaking free, they are also about evolving every area of your life to a far greater reality that it ever has been, even before you were narcissistically abused.
The Thriver process is revolutionising how we heal, as well as the understanding that narcissistic abuse and all the symptoms are NOT a sentence to years, decades or a lifetime of diminishment, pain and fear.
This is NOT true!
There is another model, a new model – and that is the Thriver Model, a model of effective healing that I passionately and personally live, stand for and have introduced thousands of people to with incredible success.
Please understand, there is more than just hope, no matter how bad things seem right now.
I want you to know and feel into the possibility that regardless of the losses, pain and damage you have experienced – whether the narcissist is an intimate partner, parent, family member, colleague – any abuser at all …. and whether you are still in the relationship or you left decades ago … whether you are 18 or 80 years of age, and regardless of whether you are a man, woman, straight or gay – I can help you heal.
My healing model is about so much more than just physical freedom. It is about creating freedom from pain and fear at every level.
This Community is not one where you will be pulled down by victimisation, and people wishing to project pain, judgement, shame and blaming – as many abuse recovery forums are apt to do.
Instead, this is a Community of over 50,000 men and women from all over the world who display great courage, incredible resources and astounding like-mindedness … individuals who are fully dedicated to creating inspired Thriver Recoveries for themselves and others.
I promise you there is no other abuse community like this, that I know of, anywhere in the world which is so based on solution, support and breakthrough healing – and facilitates exactly that.
To join the New Life Community please type in your name and email address below. It's free and you'll receive 2 of my eBooks, as well as many other resources, as a gift, to help get your recovery started.
I look forward to supporting and guiding you through the most incredible personal journey you could ever imagine. The journey to feel, claim and know that there is a way through to the other side after abuse.
A way to finally be released into your fullest flourishing, highest potential and greatest joy.
And it is my deepest desire to see people transcend fear, pain and abuse, and then become liberated on every level to become their True Selves to live their True Life … just as I have!